What if we were taught how to listen
instead of just how to speak?
It’s easy to assume that hearing is the same as listening.
However, to become a good listener takes practice.
The Five Stages of Listening - from ‘The Elements of Public Speaking’ by J.A. De Vitto (2000)
Stage 1 - Receiving
Stage 2 - Understanding
Stage 3 - Remembering
Stage 4 - Evaluating
Stage 5 - Responding
The outcomes of being a good listener
improvement in decision making
the ability to understand other points of view
builds trust, empathy, and connections
This is why listening is an intrinsic part of my AWA creative writing workshops. And why this practice allows each of us to be heard, seen, and understood.
This collective act inspires every listener in their ongoing creative writing journey.